Paul's pose is coquettish, too coquettish for Quakerism.

But I realize he may have been representing Quaker testimonies via his lecherous pose, advertising that boys could equally be coquettish to girls, simply coquettish for no reason, and peacefully coquettish without hurting anyone neither physically nor mentally (I couldn't link his pose to integrity and community). Well, the contradiction is that his pose was in fact hurting me mentally.